A Lesson on Feeling Forgotten

A Thought Adjuster Speaks - Lesson # 38
February 8, 2004.

There are so many lonely people on the planet, who really feel that they are forgotten. Somehow it feels like they have lost the ability to reach out and be heard by anyone. On the other hand there are those who are not willing to seek contact with others, and emanate an energy that they desire that they wish to be left alone. Yet, silently their souls cry out for help. There are those who have been shunned as social outcasts, due to their stations in life. Then there are those feeling unwanted and have carried these feelings with them since childbirth, and, actually, this often already began at conception, because these feelings are laid down at the cellular level.

That feeling of being unwanted, and of being an accident, can be so strong that it will influence the rest of a person’s life. He or she can grow up with very little self-esteem and feel themselves to be unworthy, and sometimes a social outcast, which is indeed very difficult to overcome. The result is that they begin to feel they are on the outskirts of life, never having experienced acceptance at soul-level from anyone, until some happening triggers something in them and awakens them to a higher reality. This then becomes a life-changing moment in their lives. These moments in time are actually moments in eternity as such a moment is forever ‘carved in their soul-self,’ and they can begin to help evolve their own soul by following their inner Guidance to a higher level of existing in life. They do then not just exist, but become active participants in whatever life has to offer them, because they have awakened to their true destiny as children of God.

The ones which need your prayers are the ones who continue to languish in their own way of unprogressive thinking, and are bound in chains of feeling unworthy, because they entertain the disabling thoughts that they are not worthy, and that nobody loves them, so they are caught in the mire of non-acceptance of themselves. This is a great waste of time. Acceptance of self is a prerequisite of loving oneself, as this is key to loving all others. The word ‘unconditional’ will need to be added somewhere in the equation to know the reality that one is at peace with oneself, with total acceptance of the way one is. This is obtained by effort and struggle to be able to come to grips with oneself at the deep soul-level of existence through the cultivation of faith and trust in a Higher Being.

It is through living and experiencing life, and the discovery that there actually lives a Spark from God within, that the mortal becomes already immortal in the material phase of existence, as the soul is growing at a healthy pace due to the faith and trust being cultivated in such a one. This will have its repercussions in the outer life, as manifestations of the growth of the inner life. These two go hand in hand as one strives to become more sincere and honest in the dealings with oneself, and these will reflect outward to others in becoming more loving and understanding -- more tolerant and forgiving -- more willing to see the needs of others, rather than to be so self absorbed as to be blind to the needs of others. Therewith loneliness will be a thing of the past, as a connection to something greater than oneself has been established.

A Lesson on Feeling Forgotten.